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Is this you?

Is this you?

Have you ever felt so fired up to do and accomplish that one goal pero after a few setbacks nawalan ka ng gana for whatever reason?

You know you really want to get it…

But you just feel like you don’t have that much energy to pursue it…

You’re scared…

And have serious thoughts that maybe what you’ll do won’t make it anyway…

Well, tbh with you I felt the same exact feeling.

Like this blog thisismelp.com < this was freaking long overdue.

Bought about 50 domain names since 2015 and spent thousands of pesos for web themes, apps and shit.

But I launched the website a couple of weeks ago lang. 🙂

Oh diba ang tagal 4 years in the making.

I found out that it wasn’t just the things that were happening around me that affected me and stopped me from finishing what I’ve started…

It was something deeper…

A bad seed grew inside me and its roots were already stuck in my DNA.

I wasn’t aware of it at first.

Pero when I became aware of it BOOM!

I’m like this renewed female who by all means, a legitimate goal-getter.

Noong una medio shallow goals lang yung kaya ko iachieve pero now it’s something different and more fulfilling to the bones…

Yung masaya ako.

I want you to experience the same thing too.

Pero di na ako magpapaligoy-ligoy pa…

What I’m talking about is your self-esteem.

Your self-esteem has a lot to do with how you are being affected by the world right now, how you are reacting to the world right now, and most especially, how you evolve in this world.

Without understanding ano ba talaga yung hindrance ng fulfilling success na hinahanap mo, believe me, you’ll only fall into a cycle.

Motivated —

Nalungkot/Tinamaan ng Negativity —

Tinulog —

Tinamad —

Namotivate —

Repeat.

So, in my next few posts, I want to discuss and explore these things with you in detail plus I’ll also invite a field expert inside to help me help you.

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Keep in mind that all the things I’ll be discussing is a sequence so paakyat to

Self-Esteem>

Relationships>

Confidence>

Self-Discovery>

Then we’ll move to Upskilling>

Service Providing>

Transitioning into a Business>

Business Management>

Small Business to Millions>

Growing Financially>

Pay it forward ❤️

Sounds exciting?

I know! I’m excited too!

See you on my next post. ❤️

Join the discussion inside All Hail The Queens.

If you don’t know what you are doing and where you’re headed

If you don’t know what you are doing and where you’re headed

Social Media made you a worrisome individual.

You might find yourself having a midlife crisis or too old crisis. Because that other digital friend of yours have already “made it”.

You focus your energy on scrutinizing their life and feeling sad about yours.

You’re not alone.

A few years ago, when I was still working in the BPO world I was always fascinated by how operation managers earn up to six figures a month.

When I resigned and became a freelancer, I was always dreaming of earning six figures monthly while working from home.

Then I aspired to become an entrepreneur where I’d have more time for me, and my family and still get business done. 

Now, since I discovered I was pregnant, I feel the need to have more time for my family than just myself and career. 

Wow. By looking at this timeline of mine, you’d wonder, will this ever-changing “wants in life” stop evolving? Will this go on and on and on? Will I change what I want in life again?

The answer is yes if you are a multipotentialite like me and no if you’re that type of person who’s living comfortably and has 100% contentment in life.

Tell you what. I’ve changed my goals sheet more than twice in a year last year and have changed twice since this year!

The things I want in life evolve and doesn’t go stale but before you go wow you are achieving all your goals now.

Not really. Not everything. 

What to do when you feel lost?

I skip on some items when I don’t feel like going the extra mile to get them.

And that is okay.

I don’t worry about it as long as I still manage to achieve at least 30% of what I’ve written in my goal sheet according to the timeline I made.

You see I planned to launch this blog YEARS ago.

I designed it. I planned what to put in here. I changed the blog name more than thrice.

And I didn’t get to achieve the blog stats I’ve always wanted.

Until one day, in just one day, I finished everything. From logo to theme and the design. I remember spending less than an hour doing it all. And here I am, I published my first ever post.

So what am I trying to say?

Don’t hold off your dreams/goals. Put it in your queue tab. Once your heart and everything else around you is ready, you will start finishing it all off. Nothing can stop you from getting what you’ve been meaning to achieve.

Just make sure you write them all down so you won’t ever forget ❤️

Cheers to achieving goals!

Hope to see you around the blog where I post everything that I’m interested in.