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3 easy steps that will make you stand out on social media

3 easy steps that will make you stand out on social media

A steer clear no BS 3-step guide to achieving the engagement you’ve always wanted so you can stand out on social media

Have you ever tried publishing ‘contents’ on your feed only to get just a few likes…

Have you crafted your pitch and did the jab-jab-jab-hook publishing format but the results didn’t turn out as you hoped it to be?

Were you ever told or maybe you read somewhere that the best way to attract your target market now is to build your personal brand…?

…and you can start attracting your target market by creating and publishing original contents on your feed…

..then making sure that when someone leaves a comment you engage?

Then you better imagine this.
You are in a room filled with a mix of your relatives, friends, and strangers…

You stood on top of a stool and started teaching everyone in the room about “the best ways to cook lumpia.”

The next day, in the same room, you started teaching everyone “how to make lumpia for a special occasion.”

On the third day, you entered the same room and started shouting “hey, look at this lumpia, I made for my best friend, he says this is the best lumpia he has tasted ever!”

On the fourth day, you showed up in the same room, and started teaching everyone “how to make someone eat your lumpia.”

The last day, was different, you started selling lumpia to everyone and you say, “My lumpia is going to be free for the first 3 tasters, come get it!”

Now let me ask you this.

If you were in that scenario, do you think, everyone in the room, would rush and buy your lumpia just like that once you start offering?

What do you think is the likelihood of a stranger buying your lumpia?

Can you tell if everyone in the room were paying attention to you during your time of demonstration?

Filled with uncertainty eh?

Well, the lumpia situation is exactly the same as immediately publishing how-to contents and originals on your feed after you watched that damn good youtube video.

Sounds absurd? Sure, but it’s the truth.

This is also the reason why there are lots of people out there who end up getting tired of publishing contents on their social feeds only to get crickets…and sometimes almost no attention at all.

It’s the same thing as introducing yourself to someone and sounding like “ Hey, I’m Keme Lou, and I am freaking good in making lumpia, in fact, I graduated in a prestige online academy doing it, I have been certified by the Lumpia Master, and I can assure you, I am the one who makes the beeeessst lumpia of all.”

Did it sound like the person talking was just bragging?

If you encountered someone like this in real life, what would you say? How would you respond?

Frankly, if I were to encounter one I’d only reply, “ Ah ok.” And then I’m gonna give a grin and pretend I received an emergency text so I could walk away.

People don’t want to be sold but would love to buy.

There are patterns and some key ingredients you need to add in your marketing efforts before your personal brand could take off.

Allow me to give you this step-by-step guide in gaining the attention of your targeted audience.

Provided, you already know what services you’ll be selling,
you’ve clearly identified the niche you’ll pursue and,
You know your target market.

If not don’t continue reading yet as this might get you a little too excited.
I suggest you go back to my previous post and read it first before going back to this line.

Now, let’s say you are 100% ready to rock the digital world with your awesomeness and you are absolutely into getting and attracting the right people in your profile, you have to pause and remember this: Rome wasn’t built in a day.

The fact that you got up to this point only means that you are really willing to take a leap and grab the chance that is not always available to everyone else.

Ready to stand out on social media with your personal brand? Let’s begin then!

Here are the 3 easy steps that will make you stand out on social media.

  1. Show your network that you have been studying and focusing on honing your skills for your new chosen path.
  2. Then Build a reputation inside your targeted community.
  3. Pay attention to the way you are talking to your target audience and clearly define who the content is for then start publishing originals on your feed.

Let me expound those 3.

Show your network that you have been studying and focusing on honing your skills for your new chosen path.

People are naturally curious and love getting access to “backstories” hence, why VIP passes and documentaries are loved by many. Give your current network an update about what you’ve been doing in the backend and tell them your story about it and how it is contributing to what you are about to launch or what services you’ll be selling in the near future. Also, showing your journey doesn’t make you look like you just popped out of nowhere and it lets everyone know that whatever it is you’ll talk about in the future, you know it because you’ve got experienced, trained and studied about it.

Then Build a reputation inside your targeted community.

Do it slowly. How to do it? Give some upfront, no BS, value-packed answers to questions or discussions posted in your chosen niche’s community. Eliminate the fear of sharing what you know. The world needs you and there is someone out there needing a steer clear answer. Be that awesome human and help that individual. The more you help, the more trust points you gain because remember, a community is a group composed of multiple eyeballs. What answers you share will not only be seen by the recipient of your answer but the whole community.

Pay attention to the way you are talking to your target audience and clearly define who the content is for then start publishing originals on your feed.

This is where most of the people who give an effort to market themselves fail. When crafting your messaging, you have to make it sound like you are talking to your target. My favorite book Building your Story brand by Donald Miller can give you a glimpse of how you can easily craft a targeted messaging.

Though it may seem like it’s a bit late for you to start building your brand on social media, it’s not. The perfect time to start marketing yourself for your services is now.

Jump in our conversations and join Social Media All Stars to learn more tips and strategies about social media marketing.

Still in the mood to learn? Watch my previous video which teaches you how to build digital relationships online.

Out of the 3 steps I’ve mentioned above, which one do you think you need more help with? Let me know in the comments!

As I write this, I want you to know that I’ll be giving out lists and guides that revolves around helping you stand out on social media. There will be updates in some posts and there will be posts that need a second part. Hope to see you on my next blog!

Is this you?

Is this you?

Have you ever felt so fired up to do and accomplish that one goal pero after a few setbacks nawalan ka ng gana for whatever reason?

You know you really want to get it…

But you just feel like you don’t have that much energy to pursue it…

You’re scared…

And have serious thoughts that maybe what you’ll do won’t make it anyway…

Well, tbh with you I felt the same exact feeling.

Like this blog thisismelp.com < this was freaking long overdue.

Bought about 50 domain names since 2015 and spent thousands of pesos for web themes, apps and shit.

But I launched the website a couple of weeks ago lang. 🙂

Oh diba ang tagal 4 years in the making.

I found out that it wasn’t just the things that were happening around me that affected me and stopped me from finishing what I’ve started…

It was something deeper…

A bad seed grew inside me and its roots were already stuck in my DNA.

I wasn’t aware of it at first.

Pero when I became aware of it BOOM!

I’m like this renewed female who by all means, a legitimate goal-getter.

Noong una medio shallow goals lang yung kaya ko iachieve pero now it’s something different and more fulfilling to the bones…

Yung masaya ako.

I want you to experience the same thing too.

Pero di na ako magpapaligoy-ligoy pa…

What I’m talking about is your self-esteem.

Your self-esteem has a lot to do with how you are being affected by the world right now, how you are reacting to the world right now, and most especially, how you evolve in this world.

Without understanding ano ba talaga yung hindrance ng fulfilling success na hinahanap mo, believe me, you’ll only fall into a cycle.

Motivated —

Nalungkot/Tinamaan ng Negativity —

Tinulog —

Tinamad —

Namotivate —

Repeat.

So, in my next few posts, I want to discuss and explore these things with you in detail plus I’ll also invite a field expert inside to help me help you.

Follow my Facebook Page so you don’t miss out on anything.

Keep in mind that all the things I’ll be discussing is a sequence so paakyat to

Self-Esteem>

Relationships>

Confidence>

Self-Discovery>

Then we’ll move to Upskilling>

Service Providing>

Transitioning into a Business>

Business Management>

Small Business to Millions>

Growing Financially>

Pay it forward ❤️

Sounds exciting?

I know! I’m excited too!

See you on my next post. ❤️

Join the discussion inside All Hail The Queens.

The Go-Getters Guide To Making Money Online

The Go-Getters Guide To Making Money Online

I’ll prove to you that it is possible to make money online and out of thin air using your bare hands and brain.

Don’t worry though because it’s never too late to rewrite your current life even though you had a pretty rough start.

Now what I’m about to reveal to you might shock you and you might start thinking that almost all the people you know could be one of them… and yes that thought of yours could be right.

Continue reading if you want to switch careers and leave your current day job…

…or if you are penniless, can’t get a good-paying but easy job and in dire need of learning how to generate good money

…or if you are a lazy person who doesn’t want to work in a 9-5 job.

…or if you want to be able to travel and have a good life while earning enough to sustain your lavish lifestyle.

By the way, the last one described me.
You see…

I hated the fact that I was going away during nighttime to work and not be able to spend enough hours to bond with my kid.

I knew that I’m a person who is determined to do the easy but extraordinary to help me get what I want…

And I only wanted to have a simple life.


A simple life for me means when I go out, I don’t have to walk under the strike of that bright sun and get sweaty just to wait for a cab, jeep, bus or tricycle to get to where I want to be.

A simple life meant not having to worry about what my child is going to get from the shelves of supermarket aisles because heck, whatever amount shows in that POS I can pay anyway.

A simple life means eating wherever and whatever I wanted and not having to think about how much the bill would be.


I’m on my way to achieving that simple life.

And I’m here to share with you what I found out, that is helping me achieve the simple life.


Stop if you are a narcissistic psychopath who has the tendency to abuse such information.

Stop reading if you don’t know the difference between being honest versus lying.


Also if you are a person who has no intention of applying what you’re about to discover.

If you identified yourself as any of those I mentioned then please go away, this is not for you.


So how exactly do you start making money online in the most legitimate way?
Read, do as I say, take action and you’ll be surprised at how it becomes a total life-changer for you.


Soon, you’d be a walking money-making machine.
In return, you’ll have a more satisfying, happier and more prosperous life… …treasure this information…


…and you never have to worry about not getting “enough money” for your chosen lifestyle ever again.


Let’s begin.
Did you know that your most important assets are within you?


Not nurturing your God-given self-assets will make you lose a lot of opportunities. And I’m not referring to your sleeping, eating, drawing, dancing, or singing talent.

I’m talking about your 3 core self-assets.

Your first asset is your wisdom.

It’s your ability to understand complexity, logic and give sound judgments. It’s your intelligence and what you know based on experience, books you’ve read, and facts you are aware of.


Your second asset is your self-esteem.


It is the sense of your self-worth or personal value. In other words, how much you appreciate and like yourself.


Your third asset is your determination.


It’s your persistence and tenacity to pursue something. Things that will not only help you succeed but will also make you do things purposefully.


Not everyone has a 100% of all three I core assets, but there is a cure which I would talk about in a separate post.


But if you have all them at 100% then it only means that you’re ready to learn how to use them to your advantage.

So How to start making money online and out of thin air using your 3 core self-assets.

#1 Find out what is your unfair advantage.

Your wisdom is your unfair advantage. Knowing where you are good at and understanding how you can leverage it will take you miles.
It’s your unique intelligence and abilities only you own.
It could be a combination of two talents or more.


Still clueless on what could be your unique advantage? Or what the hell I’m talking about?


Here’s an example, let’s say you Mary is good in getting along with people and you loves connecting. Mary has the unique ability to make people say yes and agree to whatever she says. She never attended any training nor read books, at all. She just has that natural ability to build rapport. — that right there is her unique advantage.


We are all different. The example could be you or not. What’s important is that you are AWARE OF WHERE YOU ARE GOOD AT.

#2 Identify Your Possible Career Directions

Your wisdom has a work match, all you gotta do is look for it.
Start by understanding what problems you passionately want to solve.
Pains you want to ease. Or things that you want to improve.


Create a list of all the problems in the world that matter to you. Big or small, what things would you like to see improved?


Let’s go back to our example. Mary, who’s really good at convincing people feels compassion for people who are bad in sales. It’s her pet peeve when she sees someone who’s doing it badly in presentations. The feeling makes her want to jump in the conversation and do the presenter’s job.

What is the problem that Mary could solve in this situation?

An individual who doesn’t know how to deliver a persuasive presentation.

How can Mary solve the problem of not being able to deliver a persuasive presentation?

Mary can teach people in sales her ways on how to be persuasive during presentations.

#3 Combine your wisdom and passion

Start writing down the things you know you can do or your existing knowledge and combine it with your answers in #2. Put them together and it’ll give birth to your career path.

Put the Skill/Existing Knowledge + Passion = Birth of Your Career Path

Once you have discovered your Career Path, it’s time to confirm and look for demand.

In our example, let’s say Mary knows and can do the following:

  • Persuade people to agree with her during conversations
  • Knows a lot about finance, economics, trading and is really good in math
  • Loves being on camera and can project
  • Passionate in helping sales agents

By looking at Mary’s qualities what could be her career path?

A sales trainer in the field of insurance or investment selling. She can also start teaching people online through course platforms.

#4 Qualify if your identified market is profitable.

Do you think Mary can sell her newfound career path to people in need?

Well, the information you see online are there for a reason.
High-rated or high reviewed books, courses, and any other kinds of products are there of a reason.

All you have to do is a little market research and go to your best friend: Google

  1. Do the reverse strategy. What keywords would a person in need of Mary’s services be looking for online?
  2. Affiliate Networks. The more products being sold the more demand is in there. Are there books related to Mary’s services?
  3. Check out if there is a title under the Dummies Guide book collection. If they have it there then it’s a wildly profitable market. They won’t publish a whole book without any reason.

Tip: Replicate what has been done successfully.

Once you’ve validated that your identified market is indeed profitable, the next step is all about leg work.
This part is crucial.

All the discovery and conceptualization sounds sexy and exciting but the next step is where most people stop.

I hope you are not one of them. If you are in it to win it, like me you are determined to achieve that simple life then continue pushing.

#5 The marketing and hunting begins.

You have to learn and know where your customers are hanging out. Be a part of their community and start building your reputation in their community.
Show your potential buyers how reliable you are and how you can help them out by giving away free and concerned advice. Be visible and build a valuable digital relationship.

When your prospect starts asking you about what you do that’s when you drop your one-liner pitch.

Your self-esteem and determination are very vital in this last step. It’s important to keep in mind and believe that you can do it. Your determination is what will keep you going.

Remember, all the concepts and steps I mentioned were proven effective and worked for many individuals like me. This is basically the pattern I used and how I am making money online right now.

In the next few weeks, I’ll publish a step-by-step guide on how you should start marketing yourself.

Tune in and subscribe to my youtube and facebook page! The theme of my posts and videos in the next few weeks will contribute to your newfound career path.

As much as possible I’ll publish references that are good from A – Z.I’m excited for you!

If you’re ready to jump into the gig economy, I’d love to know you!
Feel free to connect with me, share who you are and what you currently do. See you in the comments!

The Inbound Organic Way To Building An Audience On Social Media

The Inbound Organic Way To Building An Audience On Social Media

🤔Still puzzled as to how some personal brands are getting more attention than you?

😎Start doing all of the things mentioned in this video and you’d be on your way to building your brand’s reputation!

The rocket science you are trying to figure out is all listed here. 

To request for the organised group list with links on it just comment “Ready”

LINK to the sheet: https://docs.google.com/…/1aNK5aTdXgPQilvLpXdCMcxzz93…/edit…

To the moms who will settle for nothing less than what their kids deserve…

To the moms who will settle for nothing less than what their kids deserve…

The most underestimated factor in one’s parenting life that could be a major game changer.

Did you know that expense is always cheaper when you don’t need it yet?


Just like If you have booked an airline ticket months before your trip instead of a week before you would have saved some money.


Or buying real estate properties at relatively low prices during its pre-selling stage compared to RFO (ready for occupancy) units.

You win when you plan ahead.


You are able to map out your life in an intentional way when you see things from afar and when you have enough time to prepare for it.


Same scenario in our kids’ education.


Would you want your kid to have the power of choice in selecting their school for higher education?


Back then, were you given the privilege to choose which school you want to go to?


If not, then I suggest you read on because I have something to tell you…
As a parent like me, you are no longer accountable for yourself alone, your children depend on your mindful decisions. Please remember that.


Speaking as a wealth and financial management professional, if you want what’s best for your children, I recommend you strategize their future ahead of time through effective financial planning.


The most basic yet the most important need of our children is education.


Do you want to send your kids to reputable schools?
After a few years, can you confidently say “I can afford it” Without hesitations?
Did you have uncertainty saying yes to that second question?

If so, read on and I’ll give you facts.


Affordability has a lot to do with cost. 
So, allow me to delve into the cost of a college education at present. n my research, college tuition in the Philippines nowadays has an average of 150K up to 500K per year.

college tuition in the philippines

Commission on higher education or CHED is allowing for a 10% to 12% escalation rate per school year as applicable. If we use a 10% increase at 150K baseline, that would total to almost 700 thousand pesos altogether for a 4-year course.

Notwithstanding other costs like books, uniforms, projects, etc.
Now, supposing you planned for your child’s college funding 16 years ago when your kid was only 2 years old, do you know how little would you have spent then?


Instead of shelling out 700K altogether to pay for college tuition fee at present, you only needed to set aside about 200K to over 300K and put it in an investment platform that would have earned you around 4% to 8% of interest per anum.

This would have grown to about 700K in 16 years in time for your child’s freshman year at age 18. There are even schemes that would enable you to set aside money in an installment basis, instead of a one-time investment, allowing for better affordability.


Obviously, this outcome cannot happen in a bank deposit so that is never an option for your long-term goals such as a college plan.  The only value that the bank offers is liquidity, nothing more.

We can talk this over coffee if you like! Just let me know by RSVPing here.

Education can set your children up for life, hence, worth preparing for. It can either make or, the lack of it, break them. That is why for the same reason, it is scary to just leave its fate to chance or just go with the flow. Do not succumb to the unknown when you can control the outcome.

Gift them the power of choice.

You will never know if your child could be the next genius of his or her generation.


Empower them by ensuring their future until their dreams have come to fruition.

Cheers to smart ladies like us!