Social Media made you a worrisome individual.
You might find yourself having a midlife crisis or too old crisis. Because that other digital friend of yours have already “made it”.
You focus your energy on scrutinizing their life and feeling sad about yours.
You’re not alone.
A few years ago, when I was still working in the BPO world I was always fascinated by how operation managers earn up to six figures a month.
When I resigned and became a freelancer, I was always dreaming of earning six figures monthly while working from home.
Then I aspired to become an entrepreneur where I’d have more time for me, and my family and still get business done.
Now, since I discovered I was pregnant, I feel the need to have more time for my family than just myself and career.
Wow. By looking at this timeline of mine, you’d wonder, will this ever-changing “wants in life” stop evolving? Will this go on and on and on? Will I change what I want in life again?
The answer is yes if you are a multipotentialite like me and no if you’re that type of person who’s living comfortably and has 100% contentment in life.
Tell you what. I’ve changed my goals sheet more than twice in a year last year and have changed twice since this year!
The things I want in life evolve and doesn’t go stale but before you go wow you are achieving all your goals now.
Not really. Not everything.
What to do when you feel lost?
I skip on some items when I don’t feel like going the extra mile to get them.
And that is okay.
I don’t worry about it as long as I still manage to achieve at least 30% of what I’ve written in my goal sheet according to the timeline I made.
You see I planned to launch this blog YEARS ago.
I designed it. I planned what to put in here. I changed the blog name more than thrice.
And I didn’t get to achieve the blog stats I’ve always wanted.
Until one day, in just one day, I finished everything. From logo to theme and the design. I remember spending less than an hour doing it all. And here I am, I published my first ever post.
So what am I trying to say?
Don’t hold off your dreams/goals. Put it in your queue tab. Once your heart and everything else around you is ready, you will start finishing it all off. Nothing can stop you from getting what you’ve been meaning to achieve.
Just make sure you write them all down so you won’t ever forget ❤️
Cheers to achieving goals!
Hope to see you around the blog where I post everything that I’m interested in.
Melissa Profeta is a mompreneur and a community growth specialist who leads social media and PR campaigns while eating Samgyeopsal and spicy Kimchi. She specializes in client retention by growing communities and strengthening personal brands with PR & SMM.